"You brought it upon yourself"

Yes I did. I didn't know that you were someone else, so yes, I opened myself up to the wrong person. I did bring it upon myself and now I have to somehow rectify it. You will not stand up for me, in fact, you just behave passive. Passive.
If I had to predict what you are thinking, you're either predicting why I am doing this and you think you are right, that you are being put to a test. You will not be subject to it.